Many of us believe that thinking a lot of ourselves is wrong. As a result of it, we grow up undermining our achievements and not feeling completely comfortable with ourselves on occasions.
In failing to give ourselves the approval we deserve, we wait for it to come from others. when this does not happen, we down grade our efforts and worth. Showing appreciation for someone can make his day but it doesn’t give him enough confidence if he already doesn’t possess it.
Confidence comes from within. It begins with approving of who you are, and liking yourself. Confidence is not about believing in you when everyone else does it; it is the opposite of it. Confidence is to have self belief when nobody else does. Some of the tips are given here to help you:
(a) Treat to Mind, Heart and Solar Plexus with JAVEDAAN to give them strength.
(b) Think that you are unique. Take a moment to consider what makes you special, list your qualities.
(c) Have the confidence and think in that way that You can do every thing and better than every body else.
(d) Don’t compare yourself to anyone else and strive to be the best that you can but don’t let your unique achievements be undermined by comparing yourself to anyone else.
(e) Always think positively and refuse to allow any negative thoughts in your mind. Disqualify any negative statements by adding a positive one onto it. For example, if someone says that the talk you have given should have been longer and in detail, remind yourself that lengthy speech could have lost the audience and that you covered all the points. Treat Your Eyes with the JAVEDAAN.
(f) Spend your time with uplifting, supportive people and listen to self help tapes, attend inspirational lectures, read books written by such successful people who have made the difference. Spend time with loving, supportive friends who make you feel the special person who you are. Treat the back of your head with JAVEDAAN.
(g) Be Confident. JAVEDAAN can help you to boost up your confidence. At times, even when you are not feeling confident act as if you are. By acting that way You become that confident.
(h) Reward Yourself. Look for ways you can reward yourself whenever you do something extra-ordinary. By reinforcing the positive feelings, your subconscious mind will help you achieve even better outcome next time. Visualize HMF of JAVEDAAN when striving for some hard task; it will help positively achieving that.
(i) Learn from your own mistakes. When the inevitable happens, see it as a learning experience and take lessons out of it. Self confidence is about never letting yourself be undermined. When you learn to love and believe yourself, you will never need external approval again. You are tapping into and being sustained into your own energy source i.e. your inner power. You will achieve self confidence and self reliance by generating and harvesting it. Reinforce visualized solution of your problem and reinforce it with JAVEDAAN. Your inner guidance system and help of JAVEDAAN will help you achieving the desired result.
(j) Make a difference in the world. Great Poet Allama Iqbal says and I Quote.
” Daagh-e- sujjod tairi jabeen per hua to kia, Ik sujda ker aisa kay Zameen per Nishan Rahay.”
If you think of something you can do for someone, don’t hesitate to do that. By choosing to help someone and helping others unconditionally, everyone is enriched and thereby start liking/loving you. If it is appropriate, offer and help others with JAVEDAAN treatments. When people are touched by love, miracles takes place.
(k) Take Action As per Your Inner Guidance.
Decide what is important for you right now and then do it. See your life as a large canvas on which you can paint all of your dreams. You may get guidance from your inner self.
As you give yourself JAVEDAAN Treatment, imagine your mind is like a sea and while visualizing the natural rhythm of the sea tides and also be aware of the currents under the tide. For better -results, sometime, one got to read in between the lines as well. Your higher self also helps you. It can be like the quiet messages from your soul, which are accessed via your 6th sense- Your intuition. Intuition is different from impulsive or fear based thoughts. Intuition is quiet just indicating to you only. You may get a sense of something which just feels right or wrong. A glimpse of path you could take or a choice you could make. It quietly tells you something you need to know. It could be a reminder that all is not right and it’s time to do something about it. Listen carefully to those subtle messages from your soul. Those are all important and aimed at guiding you to the right path you are just going to start. This way, you will develop the force of conviction and self confidence.